I seek Refuge in God
In Gods Name The Benificient The Merciful
There’s a man called Christoffer, a Nurse where I’m living, he comes twice thrice a week and work with me as personell. He seems like my friend. He does BJJ and is a Soft Martial Artist. BJJ is called; “The art of yielding”. However it is also The Most Physically Effective Martial Art in One-to-One.
When you are Hard, a Hard Martial Artist like me you are “Very Manly and Tough”.
I told him, let’s do a “subbing” (he called it). I hit you once VERY Hard, and you hit me back … VERY Soft, this is because you are a Soft Martial Artist. He accepted. I struck him an elbow strike, with the left hand, gently, and shook him off the Ground – which happens by elbow/knee strike.
I joke with him all The Time in a verbally superior way (as Men do) and he’s yielding, and I told him something my mother told me about “a Very Soft (kind/appearently kind)” Qi Gong woman: “She is acting inferior to get The Overhand”. So, you Christoffer can Not Joke back with me, and you can Not not-joke back with me. You can only do what you do: “The Art of Yelding – BJJ”.
63:6 It is all the same for them whether you ask forgiveness for them or do not ask forgiveness for them; never will Allah forgive them. Indeed, Allah does not guide the defiantly disobedient people.